Well, it’s all coming crashing down right now. Like many others, most notably folks like Buck Angel and Blair White being the most public, I knew this pendulum swing was coming. What is disappointing is that many of the Activists in the Trans Community and those who drank their Kool-Aid are so deep in their echo chamber that they aren’t waking up or piping down. Instead, they’re in shock and are doubling down on their insane policies.
For the record, I left the Trans Community well over a decade ago; I called out the insanity of my so-called Activists, but most of the time, when I would call out the BS, it was in private with family, friends or work colleagues. People, especially in my profession, are often shocked that I don’t drink Kool-Aid, and they see it as refreshing.
Like many others with Gender Dysphoria, I have common sense and understand biology better than anyone. We transitioned to make our lives happier, live a quiet, peaceful life, and contribute to society positively. Validation of our authentic selves comes from within ourselves, not society. We didn’t see ourselves as victims! We decided to improve our own lives and overcome our adversity.
Trans Activism pushes that all trans people are victims. This is not true at all.
The fact is that everyone is a victim of some sort. We all have our hurdles in life. It’s how you overcome that adversity and what you do about it that shows your character more than victimhood. Well, trans activism forces people to stay in the victim mentality, and that isn’t healthy at all.
Right now, when you see Activists come out with publications, they constantly say that the medical treatments are “backed in science” from decades of research. That “Trans” folks have existed for years. That is indeed true, but where the water has become muddied is the removal of the actual diagnosis of the medical condition called Gender Dysphoria. These medical treatments backed by science were for a medical condition, not as a treatment for other mental health issues. Mental Health issues that are the result of Gender Theory.
Gender Theory attached itself like cancer to the tolerance we once had for those who had transitioned. Then, when Self-Identification came into play, this made this cancer terminal. Therefore, the pendulum has rightly swung so strongly the other way, and tolerance has become intolerant. It is why folks like myself (and others) who transitioned and lived peacefully didn’t have our “trans-ness” as our sole identity. Yet now, because of people who do, we are caught in the crossfire. We just got on with life because we’d found ourselves and were content with life and our society. We have now become the victims of the insanity, courtesy of our so-called “advocates”.
Women and ourselves have become the victims of people who hijacked our Transgender medical diagnoses and used them to cover up their other psychological issues, which had nothing to do with Gender Dysphoria. Then throw in Big Pharma, who saw dollar signs, and it’s why we’ve found ourselves here.
This is why we have seen these activists have the loudest voices and laws such as “Self-Id” come in. This was the biggest mistake that could have been made. Self-Id removed the gatekeeping that existed in the medical and legal fields. As such, women are the biggest victims. Removing the gate-keeping means it opened the door to women’s spaces, and it allowed those with other mental health issues and fetishes to threaten the safety of women in their private spaces.
Women once had no problems with transwomen using their facilities because they kept to themselves and trusted the gatekeeping. When activists got Self-ID, safety was removed. As one friend of mine said, “You’d see a transwoman in the bathroom, and you’d know that they weren’t born a woman, but if they wanted to give up rolling out of bed, combing the hair and out the door in five minutes or not waiting 30 minutes to use the bathroom at a public event then welcome to hell.”
We were accepted, and we were thankful.
But then Self-Id, the result of Gender Theory, shot all of this down and opened the door to people with fetishes or with ill-intent access to women’s private spaces. I won’t even broach how wrong it is to have biological men compete in women’s sports. But when you have William Thomas walking around a women’s change room at the NCAA with the “meat and two veg” on full display and erect, according to reports of women that day, well, that is a fetish, and how dare Thomas even remotely think that’s acceptable behaviour. The Planet Fitness issue with the male in the women’s change room shaving with no attempt of trying to pass? That’s not a transwoman!
In a recent Jubilee video with Michael Knowles and alphabet community activists, Knowles brought up an issue where common ground could’ve been found, except Blossom Brown “spoke” for us. Blossom doesn’t speak for me! But Blossom had a perfect opportunity to find common ground. Knowles brought up a High School that had girls rapped by so-called men saying they were trans and using the girl’s bathroom. Blossom stated that these people “weren’t trans”. Don’t you understand that saying that is an oxymoron? That’s the whole issue here, but Blossom couldn’t say that because Trans Activism that Blossom supports pushed for this, they went for Self-Id that allowed these boys to take advantage of the system.
To Michael Knowles, I say this:
This is the problem of Self-ID. By removing the gate-keeping that existed it has resulted in this happening. These sexual deviants were taking advantage of the system in our name by claiming they have Gender Dysphoria when they don’t. This is why Self-ID has to be removed, and medical gatekeeping returned to increase the safety of women and the trust in actual transwomen. These boys should be thrown into a Male prison with the key thrown away.
Women found their way to take charge of their lives and end their victimhood from Gender Theory by pushing back on the insanity. It’s why they rightly applaud politicians who are now going to return biological sex-based laws, end pronouns and return to gender-based language, which is weird because it was only done on female terminology. Funny that? They want their lives, opportunities and safety restored, and I agree.
Therefore, even allies, including Trump, once stated during his first Presidential run that he had no issues with Caitlin Jenner using women’s bathrooms in Trump Tower. Trump also had no problems with Transwomen competing in his Miss Universe pageant. Prominent folks would use a “preferred” pronoun with someone, not because that person told them to but because they looked like their preferred pronoun. This is gone, too, because of the cancer of Gender Theory. Because using terms, which the media have done, such as “her penis”, is just pure stupidity, and it’s painful for even fully transitioned folks to hear. As such, we, too, lost being called a “she” when we passed. Take a bow, Trans Activists; you are the ones responsible for these Executive Orders and the pendulum swing.
Those who had their transitioned gender marker changed are now having them changed back because of Trump’s executive order. Recently Hunter Schafer, an actual passable transwoman and actress, did a video upset about their new passport that now has a Male Gender marker. Although I thought their messaging was quite mixed. What shocked me was that they didn’t believe it would happen. It just proves how much they’re in an echo chamber of this Gender Theory cancer. However, sorry, Hunter, when you made comments apologising for your “white privilege” as part of this rant, then you’re going to lose the argument. You’re showing the world you’re also drinking the Woke Kool-Aid many people are sick of. Sadly, that’s not going to get you any sympathy.
However, changing these gender markers will indeed distress many, not because of self-validation but because these changes were completed conveniently. It was a way to assimilate. Which was the goal of transitioning, correct?
Hunter even commented that they would now have to “out themselves” because of this gender marker. The question then I ask is, are you celebrating your transness or want to be seen as a woman?
As I said, mixed messaging in your video. Once you transitioned because you didn’t want to be outed, you tried to assimilate. Gender Theory and activism are the reasons for this executive order. It’s a way to return normalcy to society.
Once to change a Gender Marker even had gatekeeping. It wasn’t Self-Id. You’d have to go to the courts and petition a judge to change your documentation. It required proof of living as said gender for years, confirmed medical diagnosis and procedures, etc. This was done simply as a convenience for a transitioned adult to make their day-to-day life easier. It wasn’t a form of validation. With that change, it also allowed for the legal entry of women’s spaces, and that also resulted in the protections for women and transwomen. We need this to return. But when this was removed, I’m not surprised that these things happened; it was coming, and it came fast as it rightly needed to.
Moving forward, the country I now call home and will call home for the rest of my life, will probably never recognise myself as female, but I still love this country and am not going anyway. Who knows, this Executive Order may even delay my Green Card. But the fact is, I was never a victim. Therefore, C’est La Vie! But I will start by saying this: I am sorry. I am sorry I was quiet for so long; I’m sorry to the women and the public who were subjected to the lunacy of my so-called “Activists”. But until the medical treatments for Gender Dysphoria are removed from the cancer of Gender Theory, then we don’t have much hope of things improving or a return of the gatekeeping.
This is my way of moving forward for myself. I will be more vocal in calling out the BS of my so-called “Activists”. Pendulum swings happen in many different areas, and this situation is no different. It is up to us, the sane ones, to have conversations and raise the points that the “Activists” won’t. I’m done with the Activists! Your actions are why we are here, and it’s time for sensible conversations to happen. It isn’t going to occur if you keep doubling down on the insanity. It’s time for us sane folk to be loud and to find common ground with those swinging the pendulum against us. It can be done.
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